Accountability is simply being responsible for one's actions. An accountability partner supports you in your journey and helps you acknowledge the essential element of trust, allowing you to trust them enough to trust yourself. Your partner helps bring out a better you in you! It is all about letting your vulnerabilities show and sharing inner thoughts without concern of betrayal.
We are all held accountable in one way or another. I have 3 very different and very honored accountability partners/group. I have my work group of 4. They know my work life, they know my approach, they know my less that subtle way of delivering my opinions, they know when my faith in life is shaken and come to walk beside me. They share their heart, their faith, their wise council.
I have my Wednesday morning walking partner. We have walked together for years. We read thoughtful, life giving books and have wonderful discussions. Sometimes we are just there to care, listen and support.
And I have Russ. How can you go wrong when your husband is your best friend. How can you go wrong when you have someone who cheers for your accomplishments, carries you when you're sad and greets you each morning and evening as if you are 'the best'! I have to say, living up to his love and grace pushes me to hold myself accountable.
Given my last posting, my accountability partners held me close, gave me support, soothed my anger and showed me I could broaden my thinking; I mattered. They have all been peace to my soul and I am grateful.