I prefer the old fashion method of snail mail and personalization. But in this time of digital technology, I have shifted my platform. There is something very meaningful and delicious about planning your Christmas card list, the process bringing out memories of friendship, relationships and shared experiences. Snail mail Christmas cards have always been a December ritual for me, a favorite part of my holiday experience.
Now? With Parkinson's looming in our world, diminished expendable income, and less and less adventure to share, it just began to seem overwhelming. Instead I decided to send a few Thanksgiving cards.
One large group of folks I want to remember are our doctors and their teams. Both our lives depend on this group of professionals; Russ for his life and me for my sanity. Each of us are carried forward because of their goodness and care.
Another reason I decided to send Thanksgiving cards as opposed to Christmas cards, was my discomfort at the direction Christmas has taken. It seems more and more a holiday of competitive generosity. I prefer generosity when needed or when you feel so moved to offer, not because a commercial tells me what you need or what I must have! I prefer authentic.
This year has been unusual with social distancing, working from home, limiting group gatherings, and zoom meetings. People we used to see regularly are now sheltering in place or waving hello from a distance.
A Thanksgiving card was my way to take a Christmas tradition and make it a part of our world at this time in our lives.