As I have said, both my parents and the era dictated a certain amount of conforming. I look at this photo and wonder how some of the families afforded these lovely outfits! My sister's and I would devour Seventeen Magazine each month. There were always tips on how to 'fit in' or what 'the right' hostess present was or perhaps how to 'help' a boy notice you.
So what did I learn from all this that I still use today? There were the social graces that put one at ease in uncomfortable situations. There was the poise and posture that was drilled into us both through example and direct instruction. Of course there was the skill of 'asking & accepting' a dance invitation, all done without texting. I sense kids who communicate mostly through text would have a tough time being put in that social situation.
I recall the very awkward boy that most girls did not want to dance with. He had to dig deep to even be in the room and I had to dig deep to graciously accept and dance with him, all the while making it look enjoyable. I have used those lessons at weddings and a few formal events. I have used them in gatherings where I did not know a soul. I have used them to calm people coming to my desk needing help or waiting for a meeting. And I have used them with parents of students. They are about interacting politely in social situations, without using my experiential background as judgment..
Though it is not dancing, the ever ingrained rule of greeting: step forward, greet the person with your name, look them in the eye and give them a solid handshake. I may have a 'Durango attitude' now, but I can call up all those lessons when I need to. Mother would be proud.