We all know a blind spot is dangerous when changing lanes at 60mph on a highway, but what of our own soul? Without intention, those blind spots, those things we are unaware of, reduces our self awareness and the connection we have with others.
Several times recently I have found myself making a judgment or I think...'don't they see that's getting in their way?' Why is it so easy to see in others, but not ourselves? I mean, we ALL have blind spots and they seem to remain hidden, even when they cause damage to others. Why do others see us differently than we see ourselves?
attitude and my behavior weren't what I thought I was trying to be or who I was. I felt it was a slap in the face, all wrong. But in reality, it was an overlap to my blind spot and I was grateful for the reminder. Life and connection is more than ME and I needed to be open to remembering that truth! I needed to figure out how I was getting in my own way.
We can't evaluate every word or action on the spot, but we certainly can in reflection. So this week I am trying to be cognizant of what others say to me that is in opposition to who I think I am or how I think I am acting. It can be very humbling so if you decide to internalize others thoughts about you, be strong, be thoughtful and be 'available' to change.
Living alone, it has become comfortable for me to do things my way. As I settle into widowhood, I am trying to love life in a more holistic way. Walk with me. Tell me your thoughts. I am ready to listen.